/adv/ — /htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #349

>>34609263
Bumping

>>34611467
Hobbies/college. Nothing else will work for you, sorry bud.
Additionally, status game but you'll need to pay for them and know they will only "love" you for your money.
But i guess you're also poor, so yeah.
Best shot is a common activity where there are women.

>>34611064
Also she hasn't wrote back, should had trusted my guy since it's over.
But yeah nothing lost after all kek

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How do you find Big Strong Woman to fall in love with?

I am about 3 months out of the best relationship I ever had and have been self reflecting about my own actions a lot...

I have realized I think I have gotten lazy in all my relationships in the past after the honeymoon phase. How do you balance keeping that romance with a woman? I feel like I have to autistically make a google calendar of like a date night every week or my woman is gonna check out? Will a good woman equally suggest or plan a date night with you if she feels like you start slipping? It just black pills me on relationships as a whole to have to plan and do everything as a guy and then the one girl I felt like was putting energy, effort, paying her own way at times dips because I got too comfy...similar to this but sorta related I feel like our bedroom life got bad by the end and she never was blunt about what she needed or wanted. It just felt like I was expected to know how to "fuck" my girl or how she wanted to be lusted after. Do women just expect men to know how to do that stuff? Or is it possible to have a woman be blunt to me about what she wants and needs even if it's unsexy at first?

>>34614586
Are you a homosexual twink texting another homosexual twink?

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>>34614760
Just a mid ho, that it's better than what you eat on the daily. If you ever get something to eat over there.
>At least she's 1.77m but not white enough for me, but should be a good fuck

>>34614789
I'd feel bad if I thought she was looking to date, and I was just looking for a hook-up. I'd rather just use escorts for that. More honest and moral.

>>34614851
It's part of the game, men are the guardians of relationships, women guard sex, you think that's not the face of someone that already ate 100s of men? Ofc she now's wants to slow down and settle at 29.
Like I said I'm looking for Aryan genes, here eyes already disqualify her for making ubermensch.
>Rape or be raped

>>34614851
And I'm a fucking man whore, so I'm already way too gone. All i do is break girl's heart. I'm irredeemable

I'm 32, she just turned 24. I like her, she's into me, but gen Z woman are something else tbf. Drives me crazy sometimes

>>34606349
Thank you for writing this. I kind of needed to read this today.
I recently broke up with my gf of 3 years a couple months ago for many reasons, but the biggest one was that she was genuinely negotiating for a hard limit on sex and physical affection. I would've *kind of* understood if we were married for 10 years and if she was 40+ or something, but we're both in our late 20's. There were more problems in the relationship but when that happened I stopped things pretty much right then and there.
Nowadays, my brain constantly romanticizes the idea that we could go back if she just sees her mistakes and apologizes, but I remember that humiliating moment of being asked for less and feel conviction in my decision.
I've been pissed all day because I kept thinking of all I gave to her and how she probably doesn't even appreciate it. I had to walk out and get lost in the city to clear my head.
Right now I'm at odds as to how to handle our current situation. I left off things as "friends", but I don't know if I should just go cold turkey and never talk to her again. She wants my friendship minus the love, feels like I'm being used and feels like betrayal.

>>34599738

You can go either direction. One is harder upfront, the other is harder on the backend. Either way it's going to be difficult.

>>34614586

This is super gay India tier shit.

>>34614917
Zoomers are good for a quick bang. Believe me, it ain't gonna last. After a while they just jump to the next dick. Be advised and don't be that hard on yourself once she finally gets bored.
>>34614986
Post your whores then. Kek

>>34600414
No one would ever call pic rel fashionable it looks like shit. If it looks like shit and it's not haute couture aka clothes made for art purposes first over function then u can be pretty sure it's fucking shit. High fashion looks good when worn right.

>>34614986
Also if you need context this is a girl i haven't banged nor meet and set up a first date. What are you gonna do, pop your dick out. The playful seed is already out there. I'm just gonna escalate in person. No other point on that.
>Saar do not redeem

>>34615008
Are you a millenial too? I mean, I'm on the edge so I can still somewhat communicate with them, but dating gen Z girls is a different game from dating millenial girls. More intense tho, this one girl here has put me through it already

>>34615157
Yes, i banged a lot of zoomers being 35. The relationships i got were 2 with both of them being 23 (i think the longest one lasted like 2+ months) and the other one only 1 month since she moved countries.
The first one after the 2+ months got bored and moved on, it was funny because we did had good sex and she came to celebrate my bday and did activities together. But yeah that's what happens in the end, they get busy with some other dude more attractive than you or simply more charming and they move on to the next bright thing. I don't blame them, i do the same.
Oh i now remember and older relationship with a 21 one, she got busy with work and studies and also didn't had time to continue, lasted also like a month + max.
It's just short lived, but good fun.

>>34614917
I'm really tired of the millenial/zoomer/boomer discourse. It doesn't matter. I've dated both millenial women and zoomer women and I can't tell the difference in behavior

>>34615230
Nah young chicks are always on the go, the millennial are already in the wall phase/ hitting it hard so usually have the profile of settling down vs having fun. Used roasties eventually realize their smv is lower as time goes by.

Late 20s man here, self-improved for a while and am probably the most attractive holistically that I've ever been (good hair still, body is good, face actually looks decent now that my face is leaner) and I'm slowly starting to get back out there. How did some of you grow the social skills or get more comfortable chatting irl with others? I think I should start off with something that's coed and gets me out and used to talking with others again. Being a techbro really did a number on my social skills, I rarely have to talk to others in my career

>>34615230
gen z girls are more fun in bed. also gives me a kick thinking about being balls deep in some sweet young pussy while most of the men of her generation are soical retards jacking it at home

You guys have heard these stories before but I’m autistic and at the bottom of the totem pole in terms of beauty standards (complete opposite of eurocentricism) Some women have found me attractive but they lose interest because personality wise I am different than 95% of guys. This is something you can’t do especially if you are an American minority because women expect you to be either culturally or socially similar to men of the same ethnicity. Do you guys think the best thing to do is to only have casual stuff with women if its impossible for them to understand you?

>>34615239
Go out with friends on the weekend it you have them. If not just talk to anyone you encounter. Supermarket, pizza place, deli, bakery any local store etc like these all have cute girls working at them who are forced to talk to you so take advantage and go for it.
>start off with casual conversations about the weather
this is just the classic ice breaker to gauge how they respond and how you may sound and what you can take away from how you think they interpret and perceive you. do this a lot and you’ll learn quick. i was blessed to have a cashier job at a chinese restaurant on the shitty side of town. i talked to drug addicts tweakers and freaks in a daily basis and it went a long way. from these crazy exchanges and conversations that i didn’t want to have i learned how to essentially not care and say whatever i wanted to whoever i want.