I just got my first ever girlfriend. We both go to the same school and I've had a big crush on her. I was a virgin before we met but she wasn't.
I was so afraid that I would start thinking about her past relationships, especially her sexual history. I didn't go out of my way to look it up. It just happened that the information came my way. I found out that she had sex with a guy she just met inside a car while her girl friend was driving, she was getting banged in the backseat while her friend was laughing the whole time.
She's smart, she's beautiful, she's fun to be around with.
I cannot get over her sexual history. It is all I think about. I don't know what or who to aim my anger at. I am angry and I cannot control it.
I was extremely depressed before I met her and I don't want to be single again, but I cannot handle this emotionally.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:24:24
>>34611772(OP) Well if you can't handle it then break up with her?
What kind of advice are you expecting exactly?
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:28:27
>>34611772(OP) Leave her dude. You’ll never get over that, especially if she hid it. Gross.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:32:02
>>34611772(OP) What's exactly the issue with is here?
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:37:34
>>34611772(OP) I've banged plenty of whores in my car? I think you should go to the thread with the virgin asshole looking for a virgin gf(spoiler alert, they don't exist)
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:39:23
Accept reality and dump that whore. Value yourself above, or, if you dont, use her for sex while you can
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:41:23
>>34611813 There are virgin nonwhores out there. Plenty of anons found them and had the most amazing postmarriagal sex. Don't give up and never settle.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:44:13
>>34611828 Hmm not really bro. They are not that many and even if they would be they need to be 18 out of highschool and mid, if they are attractive they are already having sex at 14 and getting flown out by 16-21 yo
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:45:06
Yeah, spend your life ALONE and CHILDLESS just because of your RETARDED PREJUDICE about women who had more than one partner before you. No wonder there are so many incels, as MEN ARE THIS FUCKING RETARDED TO OSTRACIZE WOMEN WITH NORMAL SEXUAL ACTIVITY FOR NO REASON. If a woman does not get married it is normal for her to have the number of partners you said your girlfriend has had. Because women, too, get dumped. And they too, need to have sex life, preferably relationships, not to end up as social outcasts, as no one wants to be friend of a loser who has no sex life. And if you haven't got friends irl, to post pictures of on your social media page, you won't have following, and if you haven't got that, you won't be hired by anyone either. As no one follows a loser with no friends and no one hires a loser with no following. So, if a woman stays a pure virgin or has one brief relationship as a result of being dumped, before getting married in her late twenties or early thirties, SHE WILL DROP OUT OF SOCIETY AND BECOME A NEET for the rest of her life.
Whatever, rot alone, idiot.
And yeah, I'm not going to check the replies as there will be a PACK OF RETARDS concluding on the basis of my post that I am some kind of a "roastie". To make such a conclusion is just SO FUCKING RETARDED IT MAKES ME WANT TO TRASH PLACES OR BEAT SOMEONE UP. And as I can't I will have a panic attack. So bye, just stick it into your skulls what I said
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)16:49:50
>>34611837 Chill foid, what the virgin incel of OP is complaining about (even though I agree that she might have a low body count probably less than 20 dudes since i believe they are both young). Is that attractive foids are well over 3 digits by the time they reach 21. And he's obviously threatened because, what he has banged like 2 chicks in his life?
>>34611772(OP) Have some self respect anon, obviously she has very poor judgement and impulse control. Is that really someone you want to be with? Is that someone you want to build your future with? And that's not even mentioning the lack of morality or self control, you can do better
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)17:29:06
>>34611935 So she had sex with some hot dude once. So what?
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)17:41:47
>>34611940 >So what? Its shameful behavior anon, and your reply doesn't address any of the points I made. There is a reason that virginity and chastity has been held in high regard for thousands of years, it should be the norm
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)17:46:20
>>34611982 Because in the past having sex would most likely result in pregnancy. Nowadays that we have protection it's no longer an issue.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)17:56:38
>>34611982 nta but > your reply doesn't address any of the points I made is just cope from you OP. We addressed your point, we unanimously told you to leave her. But you didn't answer to any of those comments. Instead you answer to the guy who tells you it's not an issue. Because it's easy to argue about how your gf is undeserving of you with a stranger online, its easy complain and be bitter about your life, it's easy to blame it on your gf and external circumstances. You are the only one choosing a life and a system of belief that don't fit. If you truly belive in what you say, then break up. Right now you're just being a whining faggot.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)17:57:14
>>34611772(OP) Just break up, all the responses here are lengthier than they need to be. If its bothering you that much, then a loving and mutually respectful relationship is basically impossible. I think its up to you to do some self-evaluation and see what you're willing to put up with. If you want to go the chaste, trad route? Go for it and accept that people with more experience aren't for you so you should filter them out early. If you decide that you're just insecure due to your own lack of experience? Figure out a way to get over it and try again with someone else. Either way, just break up and give yourself sometime to breathe. Having this level of anxiety hanging over you on the regular will only worsen your own mental health
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)18:14:10
>>34611837 Promiscuity is not a virtue nor should be overlooked
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)18:14:35
>>34611999 You forget the importance of religion and folklore >>34612019 I'm not the OP lol keep seething. At the end of the day its still shameful, repulsive, and wrong
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)18:19:09
>>34612061 > I'm totally not OP i'm just defending him staying with someone they don't love for no reason
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)18:31:59
>>34611772(OP) I didn't read your post. If you can't handle it break up. Simple as.
Ever seen a statue of Lady Justice? Every decision you make involves weighing pros and cons, and one side of the scale is always going to outweigh the other.
The hottest girl I ever dated was a 28 year old blonde who was easily a 9/10. She was basically the physical Hollywood poster image of an All American girl: ambitious, attractive, and with a golden retriever personality.
The hair in the soup was that she'd been with a double digit number of guys. That wasn't something I was thrilled about, but I didn't dwell on it because she was genuinely a joy to be around.
Your scales may look different than mine. At the end of the day, you have to evaluate who she is now and make your decision based on that.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)19:08:34
>>34612197 Not to startle you anon, but she was in the 3 digits.
She was clean, great in bed, and a genuinely great person overall, so it wasn't something I spent much time dwelling on.
OP may feel differently, but he has to compare the scales.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)05:02:48
>>34611772(OP) >banged while friend drove car I'd never date a girl like that. that's really gross dude. what the fuck were you thinking not dumping her when you heard of this? I get you didn't know when you fell for her, but now ur making a thread about it like this is some cosmic dilema, are you serious? break up with her, she's a hoe
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)06:42:44
>>34611772(OP) >I cannot get over her sexual history. It is all I think about. Do you understand that this is a problem with you and not a problem with her?
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)09:52:08
> "I think my gf is a whore" > "So break up" > "No, now let me explain how much of a whore I think she is"
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)10:44:32
>>34611772(OP) What I would do is sleep with her a few times and then move on. Continue looking for a virgin. If the next turns out to be hbc, do the same and move on. Eventually, you either find a virgin or your body count will be so high that you may stop caring
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)11:31:48
>>34611772(OP) In modernity, you are one of three types of men. >chad >betabux >incel
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)11:50:02
>>34613756 Agree. There is a huge difference in knowing a female has sex and knowing gritty details of voyeuristic sex with random men. This girl is fine with the world knowing of her exploits. This is great guy fodder for boasting about fucking some stupid cunt while her friend drove around town.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)12:42:25
>>34611855 “Attractive foids are in the triple digits by their 20s” Just making shit up
>>34614257 Right, What a good wedding story that would make for her bridemaids, how well conditioned to feminist talking points OP was when they first started to date. How despite hearing how she rode some guy while getting drove around town while her bestie was laughing it up in the driver's seat. Live laugh love in the same instant, that's a life experience all our wives should be able to talk about. Matter of fact, I hope she did it with a bunch of other guys while other girls watched. Who wouldn't be okay with this? A 4chan browsing chud probably...