/adv/ — /r9k/ wasnt much help so I'll ask here >be me >small penis,

>>34613495 (OP)
The only thing dooming your relationship is how you're thinking about this. Your gf enjoys sex with you and cums multiple times. In addition, she is supportive of you. There is no reason to think that she'd get less exhausted after 3 orgasms if you had a bigger dick, it just doesn't make sense.

You should ask your gf if she enjoys getting fucked after she taps out or if it feels like an obligation. Inb4 "she'll just lie to make me feel better", believe her! It's her responsibility to tell the truth and your responsibility to believe her, that's how you have trusting and healthy relationships

>>34613495 (OP)
Have you tried not jerking off to porn?

>>34613495 (OP)
4.5 isn't that small. Also, the fact you are able to give you three orgasms is pretty good. It would make sense she would be exhausted after that.

Seems like it is a you issue. Shouldn't take you 30 to 40 minutes, that seems VERY excessive. Look into what is wrong with you.

>>34613897
> 4.5 isn’t that small

didn’t realize this was a micropenis convention

>>34613495 (OP)
Put off the p-in-v part. Do lots and lots of foreplay so you are a lot closer to coming before you even climb aboard.

And don't worry about size. A vagina is 3 inches deep and 90% of the pleasure possibilities for both of you are at the shallow end

>>34613495 (OP)
You're making your girlfriend cum with a 4.5 inch dick?
I have a 7.1 inch dick and even I can't give my wife PIV orgasms. Are you retarded?

You are clearly doing something VERY right. The only problem here is that you're not enjoying how long it takes you to cum. Your girlfriend is seemingly enjoying herself a lot

>>34613495 (OP)
>>if my penis was bigger maybe she'd enjoy it more and want to go more rounds
the exact opposite is true

no woman wants 30 to 40 minutes of monster penetration

>>34613974
>A vagina is 3 inches deep and 90% of the pleasure possibilities for both of you are at the shallow end
this is flat out untrue
but it doesn't seem to matter in OP's case, seeing as he's providing more orgasms than big-dicked guys do on average

>>34613897
It is objectively small though. every statistic I've seen says women's ideal is 6 and a half.
why shouldn't it take me 30 minutes? how long does it normally take people?
>>34613974
we already do lots of foreplay cause she likes it and I enjoy doing that for her. it doesn't do much for me
>>34614057
if you have a massive penis I don't see how you're in that position to be quite honest. and I don't think I'm doing anything right or unique or anything. I'm pretty fat and unhealthy, I'm pushing 300 desu. and I have a bad back so essentially I just kinda mush up on her a bunch. I'm sure it's the ugliest sight in the world.
>>34614062
>no woman wants 30 to 40 minutes of monster penetration
why not? how do you know? if they don't why do they talk about big penises so much?
>>34614074
>providing more orgasms than big-dicked guys do on average
I'm sure this isn't true

>>34614585
>The average woman does not orgasm during hetero sex, at all
>I'm blessed I've jelqed for years to have a very large member, my wife can't have me fuck her for more than 15 minutes, most women tap out after 20
>Average penis size globally is 5 inches, you are in the average bell curve of 4 to 6 inches erect.

My advice to you is if you want it bigger jelq. I've been jelqing for 10 years and went from 6.5 inches to 8 inches. Basically when your in the shower make an o with your pointer and thumb and wrap it around the base. Then massage it down the length. Do a hundred reps of that a day and in 3 months you should be an inch or so longer and a half an inch thicker. If I was more consistent with it I think I would be bigger than I am.

Also STOP WATCHING ALL PORN!

>>34614585
>every statistic I've seen says women's ideal is 6 and a half.
>why shouldn't it take me 30 minutes? how long does it normally take people?


First off the average penis length is 4-5 inches. Women only need about 3 inches to be able to cum from penitration, which it's common for women to not be able to cum from penitration. Also just like men, women also suck at judging things so when women say 6 inches, they don't actually know how big 6 inches are.

As for sex, Unironically sex is only supposed to last 10 to 15 minutes at the most. 30+ fuck sessions are a porn and whore thing, so the fact that you can last 45 minutes and still have enough stamina to keep going and haven't cum is already pretty impressive. Also for someone with a proclaimed small dick you made your woman cum 3 times, I actually have a 6 inch penis and have had trouble making women cum many times.

None of the evidence you have provided points to anything wrong. It seems like you have a misplaced sense of insecurity for some reason. Find out why you judge yourself so harshly or from whom and it might get you to the root of your issues.

>>34614964
>Find out why you judge yourself so harshly or from whom and it might get you to the root of your issues.

well my first girlfriend cheated on me and was really critical of my size during our relationship. she was my first girlfriend though so I thought that was normal and I just internalized everything. and all that just gets reinforced when you hear women talk about fidelity and stuff like that in general. my girlfriend is the opposite of all those things but at the same time it's impossible to know if she really believes what she says to me or if she's just being nice and lying to make me feel better

>>34615174

Yes see. You still have some baggage from your ex that you need to sort. Also I think this video might help too when it comes to trusting people giving you compliments and more.

https://youtu.be/mRHmGQIA0lo?is=phtV4TyCD0Ks5fMG