I have a problem. I only have 2 hobbies. Sports and music. I do bouldering, gym and some running and I also play piano, take weekly lessons for it, study music theory, go to concerts and I like singing.
That's it. I exercise 5-6x a week and also practice piano daily so it basically takes away most of my free time.
The problem is that it seems women like a guy with way more hobbies and skills. Like I should also be reading novels, learn a third language like French, write, do gardening, paint etc. I don't have that. Is it bad? I want to stick to sports and music, really master those and go all in but I feel like this impacts my chances of finding a girlfriend negatively.
>>34615240 (OP)
You're fine dude. Most people don't do anything and are not in good shape, piano is nice and exercising is good. Plus those can be social activities.
>>34615240 (OP)
More hobbies help but a lot of the criticism from women has moreso to do with men increasingly losing their ability to socialize and getting into hobbies centered on pure consumerism (gaming and watching slop can be made into fun convos but are deadend topics for most new people you meet). The piano playing is probably an easy sell on a lot of women. The exercising could paint you as a generic gym bro so just focus on discussing the fun improvement aspects of it if it comes up in conversation. Unfortunately, a lot of women like the body but don't want to be reminded that it takes an autistic amount of focus and consistency sometimes.
Honestly think 2-3 dedicated hobbies is the sweet spot with most people using additional time for special interests or less time-intensive hobbies. I don't think there's anything too wrong with your hobbies, just continue to focus on elevating your ability to chat with others
>>34615240 (OP)
Just the fact that you would easily neglect the stuff you love in order to get some bitch ass girl makes you give the wrong vibe from the get-go. Just do what you love and hookup with girls in the meantime if they don't like you just go to the next one until something happens. Women will like anything you like if they are interessed for real.