Built like picrel with smaller boobs. Started at 240lb and now 180. She was my best friend and the only girl who gave me love and attention. It's been 3 years now and I'm worried I'll miss her best years. I'd like to enjoy her while she's still somewhat young. Not sure what to do, I love her and she knows she has to lose weight and she hates fats, she an autist that scroll fph (dont care if she sees this post) and hates fat people excuses with a passion but still here we are. Is there hope. For reference I often MOG. I just hate seeing uglier guys walking with skinny girls, it's eats me up. What do i do at this point?
>>77325540(OP) By missing her best years, I meant best years to fuck her. And yes she's a latina and i have a BWC
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)18:43:16
>>77325540(OP) >Started at 240lb and now 180. Okay so she's losing weight, that is a very large amount. I don't see what the problem is. Try to encourage her.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)18:57:26
>>77325568 I'm the reason for that. She's stalled out for a while tho. But we just had a kid. She was so passionate for a while, counting calories for several months and doing hour+ of cardio each day.
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)19:10:52
>>77325540(OP) That is literally the perfect size for a woman. When are you starting a family with her?
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)19:41:23
>>77325611 We literally just did, the baby is sleeping next to me right now. The goal is 140 before our 2nd kid. Is this possible in 9 months?
>>77325656 So it's mainly baby weight? That's not going away for a minute. Especially if you want to pop out another
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)20:32:49
>>77325554 You just know she is gonna hit the wall pretty hard
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)20:44:02
>>77325719 Metabolism goes up during lactation due to kcal requirements to produce milk. Pumping is a weightloss hack some women use, though a lot of women try to end it ASAP in favor of bottle feeding. Its kind of odd because theyre doing themselves a disservice when they could burn an extra 400-500 calories by sitting on the couch and pumping while watching TV or something, and thats baseline, without actively trying to maximize production.
feed her raw muscle meat, fish, liver and fruit (no banana or avocado) you cash cook leafy greens and cauliflower, broccoli and oats no other foods the best weight loss diet is a nutrient dense diet that also removes all diseases it's also better for your baby's milk to eat nutrient dense, raw foods as a condiment use only salt, nothing else as a fat source use olive oil or fermented cod liver oil 1tsp over your food is enough to get enough of all the essential nutrients
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Anonymous06/10/26(Wed)20:57:40
>>77325756 >greens and cauliflower, broccoli and oats Good way to poison the kid
>>77325740 Yeah that's actually what she's been doing. She went from 185 to 200 at peak pregnancy. In 2 month she's back down already. I've been encouraging her to explicitly "starvemaxx" telling her to pump milk all day too.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)01:42:12
>>77325596 >had a kid burying the lede here a little bit
>>77326163 Make sure you're having her pump often, at least 3x a day. Breastfeeding also will also make her hungrier, if she is stressed or sleep deprived this can make her body hold onto fat more. Its a good way to manage weight after pregnancy but because of that weight loss isn't as guaranteed as you think.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)03:33:43
>>77325540(OP) Coming from someone who was in the same situation. You have to motivate her hard. Women dont have much discipline. I started going on hikes with my girl every weekend and taking her to the gym from me. She went from 6/10 cute fat girl to 9/10. Meal prep with her, give her attention when she hits goals, and take her to the gym.
>>77325596 >we just had a kid ARE YOU NOT AWARE OF LATINA'S LAW?
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)05:46:20
>small boobs neeeext. thick girls are hot, but they have to have boobs fr.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)18:34:21
>>77325540(OP) The more you lift the thicker you want you women to be. The peak is about 5'2-5'5 and about 150-180. They can't just be fat they need to have curves. They will begin to feel insecure about the fact that you spend so much time at the gym and then will do with you. This will shape their body in the right way but they will always be chubby.
>>77325540(OP) I'm very confused because it sounds like you wanted her to lose weight but are afraid things will change? You don't have to be married to have children but what is going on with you three? >She was my best friend and the only girl who gave me love and attention See, I might be reading too much into this, when people say this it means they've checked out and aren't interested anymore. I don't hear that from the rest of your words but can you clarify what your desire is? Because if all you want is to have her at a small weight before she gets older... well you kind of sabotaged it by having a kid. Other anons can help you go from here but you may want to consider your actions a little more before progressing.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)19:01:01
>>77325540(OP) 57yo weighing in. Do you like her? Can you spend time in silence with her? D you trust her? If not, bail. If so, try not caring what other people might think. If you can't in real time, try putting off caring for 10 minutes and plough through. Steady state, if you stay with her, fucking is like a half hour a week. It might be 50% hotter if she is top 10% of your preferences. Can you replace that plus against the 167.5 hours a week you're not fucking but with a slightly hotter version? Think you'll find one of those you like being around as much? One of the best decisions I made was just riding it out with a fatter woman than I'd have chosen, given a clean slate. My thoughts only.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)19:25:37
Any have any tips on hooking up with thick girls through the apps? I like almost all shapes from thin up to but not including BBW and I just want some easy sex with some thicker women.
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)19:36:34
>>77327603 She has really good bug booty latina fat distribution. I'm also a very fit guy, muscles
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)19:43:38
>>77327651 Oh yeah, best person I've ever met. Makes my life easy and have spent every minute together since we first hooked up. Super funny and based too. Our values are 100% aligned and so are our goals. And she's really smart and interesting. She literally has terminally online based humor. Also super based and racist. Basically your guy's dream. I just need help keeping her consistent. She will do so well then start slipping after a few months. This was before the pregnancy. Wondering If anybody has had similar experience
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Anonymous06/11/26(Thu)19:54:41
>>77325540(OP) Imagine crab grabbing her neck and launching a nigger nut deep into her (asshole)