06/15/26(Mon)02:39:27be me, 23 youngshit MTF. Bi, but mainly straight.
>Get out of relationship with a bi guy that went for 2.5 years since he cheated on me with a dude.
>Decide okay, ill go for straight-er guys, go on tinder
>Get ghosted by some guys when i tell them, but one is a little transphobic about it but like still interested, calls my body sexy, cute
>He's kinda pretty and hes not fat so
>Go on a date, wear cute shit, look good. Maintain perfect voice the entire time.
>He talks about himself and his friends and his job for 2 fucking hours. He knows my name but he cant remember what i did for work.
>I'm and idiot and go on a second one, which i succumb to having sex with him
>He does this shit again. And like im wondering if he just doesn't like me like that or?
>once we get inside after a tiny bit of talking though he does go for it, immediately full french kiss
>he does have nice muscles. he definitely does work out.
>but like dude! i suck his dick. and like. i know from past experience im GOOD at sucking dick. And he moans and grunts but like i look up at him and he doesnt fucking say anything to me
>eventually kiss some more and he flips me over and starts fucking, but like? hes wayyy too high, he doesnt know where to go and he just kinda rams it and starts going that way!? like its not romantic.
>eventually he finishes, i dont, but i lie on his chest and cuddle, expecting after care
>and dude just like. starts talking about fucking arc raiders.
>11.30 hits and dude just goes home no staying over no kiss on the forehead
>go to bathroom and weve got a minor fissure and i have blood on the fucking toilet seat
>i dont dislike the guy he was cute but i ugh i cant date shitty men.
i miss my ex. i need srs. pls let men be better.
what age you started E ?
06/15/26(Mon)02:42:47>>43912197
16
so i guess it depends on the time you used this site and how bdd you are but
You turned from the biCHAD and you suffered. Repent, and return to the light.
06/15/26(Mon)03:00:00>>43912186 (OP)
This is the average experience for many and why I often had repeat hookups with some qt's even though I was the literal looks personification of the neet ugly fat chud meme. I'll admit I'm not the best at dirty talk but not even a forehead kiss? Damn girl. Hopefully you find someone better soon.
06/15/26(Mon)03:01:33>>43912186 (OP)
horror story, i am a political lesbian- men are so ass.
06/15/26(Mon)03:05:51>>43912271
no chasing in my vent thread. but no im not anything special im kinda just a mid, 6/10 dirty blonde white woman.
>>43912319
truely, bichuds must learn to not cheat
>>43912345
yeah. i guess thats what manosphere guys misunderstand. i guess the thing that upsets me is it felt to me that for him i was more a trophy, a conquest, than a person.
>>43912353
idk. the korean political lesbianism thing sounds insanely dumb
>>43912186 (OP)
congrats nona youre a real woman cuz this is just what cishet women go through as well
>>43912400
>no chasing in my vent thread. but no im not anything special im kinda just a mid, 6/10 dirty blonde white woman.
sorry but being blonde makes you cuter please post a catbox so i can compliment you thanks <3
06/15/26(Mon)03:13:16>>43912400
If there is any advice I can give, try out some more of the unconventionally attractive guys. I can't promise success or that they didn't slip into the incel scene, but I used to get tons of compliments from those who took a chance on me since I treated them as a person with no expectations. Being good at sex and aftercare helped me too but that's something you kinda just gotta take in stride until it happens or are willing to practice with your partner.
06/15/26(Mon)03:14:24>>43912186 (OP)
have you tried not being a desperate slut and putting out on the second date to guys with zero personality
06/15/26(Mon)03:17:13>>43912476
someone doesnt know that the dating sphere these days most women put out on the first date, waiting til the second is actually rarer
06/15/26(Mon)03:17:34>>43912186 (OP)
>>He talks about himself and his friends and his job for 2 fucking hours. He knows my name but he cant remember what i did for work.
I mean probably should have been done with him here tbqhon. not saying it's your fault or anything but if he's not even showing basic interest in you as a person...
06/15/26(Mon)03:22:02>>43912436
thats not how it works for okay looking ones. my sisters boyfriend is really kind and like yeah there are good guys they just dont date trannies
>>43912460
im sorry i dont even come here often anymore.
>>43912467
i suppose. but i want my parents to also be proud of a guy i date you know? im nit against, and i do think cuter like unconventional guys are nice but
>>43912476
yeah shit anon i really should have saved myself for marriage huh /s
06/15/26(Mon)03:24:26>>43912186 (OP)
don't let yourself be used, although it's on you if you do that. connect with someone at a personal level first and then let sex enter the picture.
I'm sorry someone hurt you; intimacy shouldn't be like that.
the good thing is you're at least aware that it's important for someone to listen to you. it should be a dialogue.
your dating value is a lot higher than you probably think, especially if you pass and take care of yourself. you'll BTFO cis ladies if you show a modicum of actual care towards the guy you're dating too.
be willing to cast a wide net and grind away talking to people, but also make sure the bases of respect, mutual listening, and mutual interest are covered.
good luck out there youngshit, dating sucks, but if you select for 'interesting' it might suck less.
06/15/26(Mon)03:25:04>>43912497
>>43912503
>>43912525
>don't enjoy someone's behavior
>reward it anyways
>wonder why they don't behave better
gee wowie whiz!
>>43912186 (OP)
Damn I had a really similar experience with a trans girl recently, not going on a second date though. It was very disheartening I understand your sadness anon
06/15/26(Mon)03:51:23annddd i found out he left a hickey fml
06/15/26(Mon)04:06:21>>43912778
back of the neck
also fuckkk no im taking this anons advice >>43912541
>>43912186 (OP)
>he just kinda rams it
I have only ever fucked pussy before, what am I supposed to do inside tranny ass? Look for the prostate I imagine but idk how
06/15/26(Mon)04:11:14>>43912828
>back of the neck
What a childish dickhead. Honestly nona ive found the sweetest romantic guys on 4chan desu who are also amazing at sex. Not this board but ones devoted to special interests. Hope this helps in your wide net casting
06/15/26(Mon)04:12:15>>43912867
>what am I supposed to do inside tranny ass?
Communicate with her, go slow at first and lots of foreplay and lube
06/15/26(Mon)04:13:09>>43912544
take it up with women i guess, im not complaining i like the easy sex
>>43912880
It'd be nice to be able to admit I havent done anal before but if I say that its prob over
06/15/26(Mon)04:26:03>>43912930
Nah thats okay, my boyfriend hadnt either when we met up and it was still the best sex of my life. Just keep in mind its in a different place than a vagina so the angles will take some adjustments and some positions may not work as well, and it can be extremely painful if you do it wrong so just be sure to communicate with your partner and make sure she's having a good time :)
06/15/26(Mon)05:01:10how tall r u
06/15/26(Mon)05:14:10>>43913197
nobody has agency lol, people just yap on and on about themselves with zero self awareness and blame other people for their problems until they're absolutely forced to change
06/15/26(Mon)06:25:12>>43912186 (OP)
>>43912400
I'm sorry anon, I promise not all bichuds are cheating dirtbags.
>>43912186 (OP)
>know he's a loser that doesn't give a fuck about you
>let him fuck you anyway
>he doesn't magically stop being a loser that doesn't give a fuck about you
lets be serious now
>>43912186 (OP)
>i miss my ex.
Forgive him and get back with him then.
06/15/26(Mon)09:52:19>>43912867
the fact that you're even asking means you're probably better at sex than the guy described in the OP.
I can promise you he thinks "smashing pussy" is literal instructions and not hyperbole. if he can't even give a reacharound he's definitely not eating pussy.
06/15/26(Mon)10:05:08woke up got ready for work; ass still hurts and when i cleaned my room had to touch the condom and i mean i guess i know he did come
>>43912976
i mean exactly. like everyone gets its not perfect but you just gotta be gentle/caring with it
>>43913207
171 cm
>>43914322
idk. he was employed with a good job, he paid for first date and look a bitch does have bad standards and you know i can work on that
>>43912186 (OP)
>guy shows little interest
>guy shows little interest again
>fucks him regardless
>doesn't communicate during sex
>doesn't get aftercare because the guy doesn't give a shit
>"why can't men be better?????"
holy fuck i'm begging you to take some accountability in this situation