/lgbt/ — Do you think effeminate gay men are doing "that voice" on pu

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)09:03:17No.43914425

>>43914423 (OP)
no, but I get a slight faggot voice if I talk fast.
>22 yo virgin autistic man moder

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)09:04:27No.43914431

>>43914423 (OP)
Yes

I don't know. I suspect my ex bf had it because he didn't have a dad and picked up on his mom's speech patterns. But his sister talked like a dyke so idfk. Weird family I hope he's destitute rn.

>>43914431
Do you think straight trans women are using a female voice on purpose?

cow!PQT8yP5uJI06/15/26(Mon)09:07:07No.43914441

>>43914423 (OP)
yeah but i also think straight men r doing their voice on purpose, noones voice is that deep lols
>>43914423 (OP)
cute image

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)09:11:48No.43914455

>>43914423 (OP)
Yes. They are emulating women for whatever reason, usually rooted within a highly sexist environment and upbringing. You aren't just born with gay voice. It's a character. It's also why most of them end up transitioning eventually or heavily lean into crossdressing. A majority of the trans women with dysphoria I knew didn't have gay voice but usually a more neutral or softly spoken way of talking.

>nose constantly clogged from allergies and/or the cold
>just a bit of dust can clog it up
Even when it's not clogged for once, I speak nasally out of habit, so I kind of always do the voice at least a bit.
I just wish the allergy symptoms weren't reducing my already low qol.

>>43914455
But women are born doing that voice and are not emulating other women?

>>43914504
>Super gay has to be loud and proud to let people know
Are you saying subtly feminine gay men don't exist?

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)09:30:05No.43914525

>>43914512
Not at all. Stereotypes are just that. There are also those who are more closeted about their behaviors for whatever reason. Bro voice and at the gay bar voice.

>>43914504
>You'd be hard pressed to find cis women who speak like that outside of very very niche subgroups
I dunno I've heard women who sound like that I just think you don't notice because they look female.
Seems like overall your message is just that femininity is fake when men do it.

>>43914423 (OP)
if you know a gay guy irl, ask his attractive friends if he does the voice and then ask his unattractive friends too
you will see they only do that voice in front of the former

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)09:41:24No.43914570

>>43914542
Nope. And femininity isn't a monolith either which is why I made sure to phrase it as flamboyant. Also just because someone is gay doesn't mean they have any interest in femininity, nor should people assume those who picked up certain speech patterns from time spent around women are homosexuals or trans. Leave that for the homophobes

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>>43914423 (OP)
It's artificial and done for attention, but gay men are too stupid to realize why they're doing it, so it's not on purpose. They just think it's part of their "authentic" selves and makes them happy because of that

t. knower

>>43914616
>It's artificial and done for attention
what about how straight trans women talk? Is that artificial and done for attention?

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)09:59:21No.43914628

>>43914616
Some are very much doing it on purpose and when you're just trying to relax with them, it can be a bit frustrating. It's like, Bitch. Relax. Drop the reverse guard a bit. I know you're gay. Everyone here knows you're gay. I will still put your nuts in a vice later and you can moan pretty for me.

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>>43914618
Naturally, they're the same demographic after all.

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)10:10:02No.43914663

>>43914628
So much this. I knew a trans girl who was very bubbly at first to help sell it but the more we talked and the more she dropped her guard the more her natural girl voice came out. Not a boy voice or whatever but her voice. It was like finally getting to meet the real her and that authenticity was so attractive to me. That's what a lot of incels don't get about most women. There is the public version they practice their whole life being to appeal to social, and often sexist standards expected of them, and then there is the real version few are lucky enough to know.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_male_speech

Here you go, faggot
May it help you understand yourself

>>43914455
>>43914441
there are straight men who are soft spoken

>>43914423 (OP)
Sometimes they actually do.

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)13:43:14No.43915551

>>43914703
wow thanx

it's just how they talk. stems for being socialized with women.

Anonymous06/15/26(Mon)13:46:44No.43915565

>>43915562
would flamers talk like masculine men if they were not at all socialized around women?

>>43914455
Gay voice does not = women voice. How have you not watched this yet? https://youtu.be/SF7KCsvcw2g

>>43915953
most people are npcs and just repeat the lines
what strikes me most is that most people are totally programmed to be against being willing to admit a man could exist who was natively, genuinely, genetically feminized and feminine, but closer to male than female. The mere concept makes people's heads explode.

Men are not allowed to own or enjoy femininity and are taught to view it as a fake performance if they notice it in themselves (and thus to suppress it).