/r9k/ — >Be loner autistic girl >No friends as a kid or teenager >Me

at least you have your husband

Uncle basheer grind the wifi router into fine dust

Do what the other lonely housewives do, play friendslop games on steam and get a disproportionate amount of attention and validation from random 20 year old men by simply being female. I can give you a step by step guide if you want and a brief coaching session on how to make friends.

>>84826849 (OP)
>Meet husband at a family friend's wedding
>*leaves and hides thread*

>>84826874
Meh. I can't be bothered with online friendships anymore, especially with men. I just want female friends and to be in a group. It's corny but when you've never had that and you see other women all the time being like "10 years with my bestie, going to her wedding as Maid of honour!!!" And it's like omfg im going to die alone in some old people's home and not even make friends to play mahjong with there. I'm just sick of putting myself out there and getting absolutely 0 return from other women

You really think this gets easier as an adult and women get less cliquey but they don't

>>84826923
As an adult woman you can't really have male friends. Idk if the men of 4chan know that husbands and boyfriends get jealous and it becomes a big whoop about it. It's not like men are any easier to befriend, just less outwardly exclusionary. They're still dogs that will follow their wives and girlfriends social orders of not liking a female

>>84826889
Why would it get easier as an adult woman, exactly? What do you have to offer potential friends that isn't insanely generic? Hard to really pin down why other women hate you without seeing you in action, you might just be annoying as hell.

>>84826849 (OP)
Try out autismo hobbies. I watch a female youtuber who does speed puzzling and everyone there seems very nice to each other
Maybe you could make some friends like that
Avoid sewing stuff though. The women involved in the hobby are notoriously catty.

>>84826944
I assumed it got easier as an adult because we'd put aside the teenager/childhood type of arguments and fights and be more level headed. I don't know why I have to "offer" something to make friends when everyone else offers nothing that I don't. Like I should give them money or something to be my friend lol?

They probably don't hate me they just find me kind of off putting or something. I do all the autist don't make eye contact and be blunt kind of thing. They're also all older than me by a bit so maybe that has something to do with it

>>84826958
>women
>be level headed
Pick one.

But yeah maybe you're annoyingly attractive or something or the other moms thirst for your man and consider you in the way, but you do need to come to terms with the reality that all relationships are transactional, just not with cash. Motivation ALWAYS has a source, the motivation that someone has to be someone's friend does require a source. You do actually need something to offer that they desire -- think about it, every action you take has opportunity cost, they could be doing anything but they would be spending that time associating with you at the cost of everything else. It has to be worth it in some way. It may be hard to accept but the bandaid has to be ripped off at some point. If you weren't a woman your husband would not love you. Everything has a condition implicitly. If you have questions I can expand on any part of this if you want.

>>84827028
Gosh I'm only 5 years older than you!!! Lol. Female validation is important for all women, even more than male validation. That's why women have deeper friendships than men supposedly.

It's also not that unusual, most people in relationships don't want a girl/guy best friend around that might potentially sleep with their partner and ruin their whole marriage.

>>84827023
Best not to mingle with the 60iq indians anyway. If you don't like online stuff then go to whatever normie in-person gay activities you probably like and try to find other autists there. That automatically satisfies at least two of your inherent requirements which is proximity and shared interest, maybe that will be enough for whoever you meet.

As a word of warning, be sure to sound them out and don't talk to people that are opposite of your beliefs. If they like starmer for example just pretend they don't exist. There's just too many indoctrinated trashcans out there that buy into the cult of hating white people because their parasite overlords told them to do so.

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>>84827060
I'm not british I'm Australiannnn

>>84827110
Different island same shit, Aus is cucked as all hell too. Replace starmer's name with whatever parasite is helping ruin the place further currently.

>Be loner autistic girl
Cool. Wha's tha problem then?
>so lonely
Ahh, shieet.

Loner typically means someone who avoids social interaction on purpose. Like me.

The rational thing to do would be to try to make sure this doesn't get in the way of your kids' social life. In other words, if you can't have it, at least don't sabotage shit for them.

Is there really no autismal adults you could hang out with? Seems like all you've done is brush against a couple of normie spaces and are surprised that relationships didn't stick.
>>84827005
Boils down to either making the effort or continuing to suffer (and it becoming more difficult over time).

>>84827136
I feel bad for my kids because it's not their fault that i can't be a normal person and be friends. My mom was like me too when i was younger and it did me absolutely no favours in making friends. They're both pretty social though so I hope that will override me fucking up. I don't want them to notice it either or me being hurt about it. Weird to have normal sociable kids when I was so different at that age

>Is there really no autismal adults you could hang out with
I'm basically wall to wall to normies its like everyone here's worst nightmare x1000. Youre probably right though and that i don't get out enough or whatever

>>84827134
IT WONT BE EASY UNDER ALABANESEY

>>84827198
They don't really need their mom helping them socialize anyway, if anything you're helping them not be taken over by stinkjeet ideology. Pretty much all media and tiktok are all attempting to groom your kids by the way at all times, the tranny and self-hatred ideology is baked into it. Account for it or wait for them to hate you later, and themselves.

>>84827229
Meh I'm not concerned. They're both way too young for tiktok or devices. Also if you look at kids shows like 90% of them don't even have people in them, they're always animals or inanimate objects. I always wonder if there's a reason for this like kids enjoy the look of animals more than animated human children. Weird

>>84827246
You not being concerned is honestly pretty concerning, it means you are unaware of the EXTREME rate of brainwashing. The themes in children-facing content are overwhelmingly gay/tranny/anti-white and at this rate they're going to make it their core identity. The best way to destroy a people is to corrupt their children while the parents aren't watching in schools by the overwhelmingly dominant majority of gay/MAP/tranny "teachers", advertisements between cartoons, and the plot of the cartoons themselves.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C2l2k2NtenM
OVERWHELMING majority are like this. Put a recorder on your child and listen to a whole day of their schooling if you want to be safe.

Also, this is pretty ahead of the curve but autism is caused by a folate deficiency in your brain due to synthetic folic acid restricting the ability to absorb it, you need to completely cut out folic acid (it's in a lot of processed food/some supplements and in any enriched grain product) and take high dose folinic acid or folate if you can't get that (sounds same, very different), one name for it is leucovorin, it is partially reversible. Folic acid is effectively a silent neurotoxin.

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>>84826849 (OP)
I'm in the same boat. I just don't have a child.

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>>84827332
Thanks anon, I appreciate the pretending. Can we go on a pretend date?

>>84827272
I really don't think the small catholic primary school my kids are going to are talking about tranny genocides or something to them. It's not that hard to monitor the stuff your kids watch and ask about what they did in school that day. I'm also not extremely far right and I don't have a problem with my kids knowing gay people exist soz

>>84827302
Man i used to be so pre-occupied with my kids I didn't have time to be lonely. If a sad thought ever creeped into my head I'd be like "okay let's all go for a walk and see birds" and the darkness would go away for an hour. But now they're both at school and I'm just like okay what now. I think this is pretty common. I'm just going to have this other baby to stop the loneliness

>>84827343
I only pretend to date light skinned girls and I have a girl right now or I would, sorry! If you want some godly advice though I'm happy to oblige as I am bored and up at ungodly hours.

>>84827539
Dementia and other neurological disorders are generally diet based, sometimes caused by common OTC meds.

>>84827556
One of the few good things about being born in this era is seeing all the gut brain bullshit be looked into than chalking it up to bad luck and le that's life

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After a certain number of failures you have to start assessing the option that it may be you and not everyone else.

>>84827556
then there's also things like Parkinson's, which seems to be caused by some form of chronic dopamine deficiency, which in turn can be caused by a variety of lifestyle/genetic factors. so dopamine-affecting ADHD meds can also literally prevent Parkinson's.

>>84827607
I KNOW ITS ME THATS THE WHOLE THING IM SAYING U RETARD

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>>84827682
Tbh it's not that bad. She probably had super small breasts before pregnancy and then they got larger to make milk then deflated again, it happens a lot to super thin women. If your boobs are medium-large before they will still hold weight and buoyancy after breast feeding. I'm preggo again tho so the whole process is gonna start again and I hope they aren't too wrecked after

>>84827110
Australians tend to shun weirdos unfortunately, i know cos im from perth lol

>>84827670
Tits are preferable to whatever wholesome.chungus garbage this thread has devolved into. Retard normalniggers with actual children and access to the internet that can't spend time figuring out basic topics like nlp, or invest time in learning a skill and stsrting a business. I'm surrounded by braying retards and clueless animals. I dislike this existence.

>>84827701
>no tits
You know the rules, and so do I. Get the fuck out.

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>>84827704
The robot stripped my image. That said, eat shit, you unfunny retard.

>>84827757
I'm not boring I'm just off-putting and autistic!!! I do shit. I know shit!!

>>84827723
>no timestamp
Continue with your getting the fuck out, unfunny retard.

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>>84827776
That's quite a reaction I see. Knowing shit isn't enough. What are your hobbies? What things can you do to have fun with other people? I'm also autistic but not necessarily off-putting. That depends on the person and more on what you think of yourself actually.

>>84827806
>Play foidslop games on laptop
>Watch movies with 200 reviews on letterboxd
>Read like once a month
>Gym

I'm a zoomer at heart fuckkk

>>84826849 (OP)
idk but fix it before you get suicidal and inflict trauma on your family

>>84828003
I'm not suicidal I didn't even have ppd gosh can't a gal just complain on a complaints board

>>84827023
Indians and asians are a heavily in group people , best to not mingle with them, go talk to other white moms.

>>84827693
This is very different to my current approach. I do the same compound exercises 3x a week. I'm going to look into the glycene stuff to see if it improves my sleep though I think my poor sleep is caused by my overbite

Funnily, I once got prescribed folic acid because my b9 levels were weirdly low.

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>>84828088
I don't know why but there's so many Indians around like holy shit. Like 50% of my kids classes are Indians and it's a pretty regular school. Probably cause Indians have a bunch of kids or whatever. Not even that racist but i can see how people are worried about the white race lawl. It's an urbanite area tho so idfk. all the teachers are white atleast. The white mothers are all like ten years older than me as well. If you're wondering what an urban catholic school in Australia is like

>>84828128
>white mothers are all like ten years older than me as well.
Thats the problem , indian and asian women know it's best to have kids young and have lots of them, whereas as white women usually wait it out after spending their young life in clubs and bars partying then shat out one kid at 30-40 years of age. I was surprised you already have 2 kids in your twenties. Also yes statistically it's not looking good for the white race in Australia considering indians surpassed whites demographically recently.

>>84828174
Old women are known to avoid young women, women your age you could talk to are all partying. If you go to church you can try talking to women over there ig.

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>>84828174
It's crazy how judgemental and fucking rude some other women are. I got that all the time for my first because I was technically a teen mom (19 about to turn 20).

Sentences I heard the most during that time
>Oh you're so young I don't know how you're doing it
>Didn't you want to do more things first??????
>That's a lot to handle for someone your age

LIKE I PROMISE YOU IM FINE. anyway pregnant with number three right now. I just want this one to work out, I had a miscarriage last year fml

It's not like I'd ever comment on how old they were when they had kids so i dont understand why they feel the need to do it with me. Just really makes me mad

>>84826849 (OP)
>be worthless, uninteresting, low IQ foid
>get a boyfriend and get married with 0 effort
Pretty believable story, actually, nicely done.