/trv/ — >late bloomer due to health issues >go to hostels in eastern

>>2888119 (OP)
>everyone just minding their own business or does phone stuff
like 90% of hostels are just people trying to save money on a cheap place to shit, shower, and shave. It's also a fucking Tuesday so why would people be doing much else?

You're not in a Bali hostel on a friday night retard.

Also
>using a hostel specifically to gain friends
LOL, it's good for people who are social to exploit it with less effort than finding a bar to do it at.

>>2888119 (OP)
go to he common room. sit down with a beer. try to engage people. it is not hard unless you are socially inept cripple.

>>2888119 (OP)
Hahaha faggot retard frogposter

>>2888119 (OP)
I'm not the most social guy but it was a bit easier meeting people in hostels in Asia moreso than Europe. That said, I didn't go into hostels looking for friends or a wife. It was just a cheap place to stay. I did meet a cutie in Berlin that I think about from time to time. But outside of that, no friendships made, or other girls I remember talking to. Even one that I bailed on after one night due to how unsafe and weird it was in Munich.

>>2888119 (OP)
Where are you originally from? USA? UK? Somewhere in Europe?

I'm American and when I think of hostels in eastern Europe I think there may be some language barriers there. which doesn't really make finding friends or a gf much easier.

Like if you met a German girl who just spoke a bit of English... Sure there could be physical attraction there, but the communication would be more difficult.

>>2888119 (OP)
>stay in hostel hoping to make friends or get laid
>everyone's a turbo normie in their own groups making it hard to approach
>only chance I have is with hoping I roll some good roommates
>most of time it's other turbo normies who immediately made friends with other turbo normies and already have plans to go out with them (I'm not invited, or if I am I'm ditched)
>occasionally I meet a nice female I can strike up a conversation with
>after I leave the room and come back I find her already in bed with some Chad

I'm genuinely considering just giving up on hostels. It's too painful and the shared showers and bedding aren't worth it if you're not a Chad
God I wish I was a turbo normie

>>2888162
Chads make up what, 0.1% of males, if Chad means making a career from pro sports.

>>2888162
I think we are seeing the late-stages of the Sexual Revolution.
Whammin don't want to give it up to a rando unless he's a chad or she just really like him.
You should probably focus on courting a woman with intent to marry her/lover her. Seggs tradtionally is a part of the package that comes afterward.
Expecting it from every Stacy you meet in a hostel is a mistake.

>needing an excuse to talk to females
beta male cringe

>>2888163
Chads make up a significantly higher portion of travelers though.
Lots of gap year frat bros or rich dudes killing it in finance/tech with their rizz. Incels usually just sit home playing video games, they don't even think of traveling usually

It was like that when I was backpacking before covid. Normies live through their phones and only care about their social media profiles since 2013.

>>2888162
You forgot to mention your age
I'm 32 and I'm completely done with hostels
Paranoid nightmares of getting robbed by mischievous elves make me unfit to stay in a hostel.